Monday 25 June 2012

Mother's love is the same, no matter what happens !!



she said its ok and then smiled ): those 16 seconds were out of the world ! she forgave me for whatever i did and everything else !! only thing in my mind was how could she do like that how such a broken heart could act like that !! but that was her, always the same ! everytime i did a new mistake and everytime she showed me the same smile !! and today she is habitual to forgive me and i m fond of doing mistakes again and again !! that repition made me a mistake for ever and her love is a perfection forever !!




*story people*

Kashmir, heaven on earth !!





The papers just exhaust you (even though u haven’t studied much :P) but in the time of the preps your mind wanders to catch up ideas of hanging out !! once in a blue moon they get executed and here is ours(mine+friends) blue moon story. After the last paper, straight from the hotel to friends hostel and within 30 mins we are all ready for Kashmir, how brisk that was !!

Peer chanasi !!
Although it was mid march and no chance of snowfall anywhere around muzaffarabad, but a place called peer chanasi a little uphill steep road from the city of almost 30-40 mins and you are there !! huhu ,the place still held the snow of almost 3-6 feet over its peaks  , and it was amazing walking on snow for two hrs uphill and two hours downhill. Although we couldn’t made to the top of the mountain but the beauty was sufficient to take our breaths !! Bliss !! take a look !!





how deep was the snow, loved it !!

even the sun looked marvellous there :) adding to the beauty :)


uphill task, but proven to be one of life's bestest memories !!



home at such a place !! summer dream :p


how badly we ruin the snow !! :P





that walk, Aww such a charming day !





other than snow, other captivating thing was the loveable waterfalls !! 30-40 minute travel from muzaffarabad city to my friend's uncle home was a beautiful village, green fields, enchanting waterfalls, mighty mountains, springs and the goodhearted guests !! mind blowing freshness ! 






adorable <3 <3
lovelyyyy <3

one more waterfall <3


beautiful bridges connecting the two sides of river  neelam!!


one more beautiful view of neelam river, <3 


more to come but some other day !! :P

Wednesday 20 June 2012

Happiness cycle of a human!!




The business cycle taken up as Happiness cycle of a human!!
The four phases of business (could be taken for economy as well) as everybody knows it and in every dictionary u would find it but let’s take one more angle of this economic based topic and let’s apply this to humans !!


BOOM/HAPPINESS AT PEAK:
A very happy period of human, HAPPINESS, REJOICE, prosperity, comfort at its  very peak, fortunes keep making their way, things look good and they are taken good even though they aren’t that good but due to peak of happiness, their affect is felt the least !! this phase can be characterized through a series of events, lets say results of different education qualifications, being in love, (these days being in love is necessary to get marry, not true ?? may be, lets move on ) being married, outings and trips, having children( what else?? I am so dumb to give few more happy filled candies I mean examples!! ) and so on and on!


RECESSION/HAPPINESS FADES:
Then certainly the happiness, rejoice started to fade, the things which used to gave us joy and excitement have started to look pretty straight and simple. The life gets to be monotonous and without any activity and fun. Even a stable life looks to be bore and uniform. Frustration and agony starts to creep into the life and the ultimate pitfall is depression. Behaviorally it can be characterized through: lack of interest in education; job; business; (wife may b :D ) and the results are failure in education,  job loss, business loss and ( *ife loss :P hain na ?? L or W, both ways Allah bachayeh) which is ultimately the depression phase.



DEPRESSION / SADNESS AT PEAK:
The very unwanted phase in human life: sadness, wretchedness, disconsolateness, loneliness, miseries etc completely overtakes the available space in the life of that particular(s). Things don’t look very good, and even good things don’t give the same amount of satisfaction as those used to in BOOM phase. Some people try to escape this phase by certain tactics, some lose all hope and end up their life at their own hands while others try to put themselves together, some in the hope of positive future bear this phase. to put this phase in practical , it would take up the form of: death of someone very dear, in few case failure in examination (students know better :P), loss in business, job loss and so on !!


RECOVERY / SADDNESS FADES TO BIRTH HAPPINESS:
the inner depression and hardness of the depression weakens the person deeply, but no time lasts long and the person starts to do some recovery work, help in certain cases by the friends and family might prove vital but at the expense of his loss, the person has overcome the depression phase, moving slowly back to life seems difficult, things look bizarre. But ultimately the person is back on the normal track of life, daily routine starts to be settled down, Excitements and thrills have started to find their way back in life and once more the pressed back to the start of the cycle that is BOOM.


And that’s how life deals us, a series of ups and downs, short spans of joys and then a bit uniform life and on the contrary small pains, big trouble, breathtaking incidents but still the life moves on, feeling of being happy cannot be felt more after the phase of depression or sadness similarly sadness seems to be of no affect after continuous incidents but the span of happiness makes the value of sadness at its place and the cycle goes ONNNNNNNNNNN !!!!

Sunday 17 June 2012

Blog's Idea !!!



well the idea was on my mind since an year ago when out of luck i need few things to take a bit support of, yeah definitly in times of dismay you need few people's support plus one's self-efficacy as well. but then, i only relied heavily on twitter, facebook as usual was a boring stuff !!
well no need to talk about the bad times, the storms doesnt stay for long and the same happened in my case. well after crossing half way in my CA education  and passing 6 papers in last two attempts while only 5 papers in last 2.5 years show how careless and incompetent i used to be, (no wonder i am still a jerk except passing, i used to say that ): makes me to do better ,  :P)
 but thankfully back to track ( insignificant information ?? oh no but the later part is based on it, so bear it ): )
so the feeling of having a short spell of psychological freedom with just one paper in this attempt, thought to start a blog.
well definitely i am not a great writer, my friend(s) say so ( oh of course a middle way is always there and yeah i know it wont be bad enough !! ),

Me: dude why dont you start a blog  (thought just to buck him up and then i ll put up mine idea later  :P )
Afnan: yeah i have been thinking on that but it needs regular writing !!
me: oh no worries, i will be there to support and back you up !
Afnan: how sweet of you !
(main story starting LOL :P )
Me: i was also thinking to start a blog,
Afnan: dude you can but only a "porn blog"
what a besti feeling was that but in rage and in an attempt to show my Incapabilities !! here I am !!
with a nonsense writing !! plus thanks to google stuff for helping me in setting up all !! how "mushkil" kam seriously !!

would be back later with more bakwas stuff later !!

Saturday 16 June 2012

Being together ..... ??? relatioship or what ????




the feeling of being close to one another despite physically being miles away and the feeling of miles away despite being physically so near !! what type of philosophies are these and to whom they relate ???
being together makes two persons a couple?? good friends?? or nuts to laugh at?? a common conversation among friends !!
the loyalty as being commonly said or felt is a feminine characteristic but to me and many more who share mine thinking know that the relationships depends on the particular persons not on boys or girls !!
the universal quote of "bhagam bhag" what we say running behind something will make you keep running behind that thing while if someone is in your chase, you will definetly make him chase forever!!
But, but sometimes the people like the opposite poles of the magnet cannot stay away from each other !! still i will take the contigency theory and let the type of relationship depend on the type of persons in the said relationship,
Lets hope hope the relationships are binded with the greatest force of love, respect or trust rather than the "chasing" story with one of the persons in any relationship suffering while the other suffering at the hands of third person and so on !!! love dependence is better than freedom but freedom is better than suffering !! "stay blessed"